Debra was a successful business woman, owning her own IT company. Yet, from her early childhood, she wanted to compose music. She felt extremely frustrated when all her attempts to compose were unsuccessful. She knew she was talented, yet she would start composing and could not complete any composition.
We found out using Energy Muscle Testing (EMT) that the block was a result of a past life trauma in France in the 18th century. Debra had no idea and no memories. She even was not sure she believes in past lives.
We proceeded using EMT to narrow down more details of the trauma. It came out that in that lifetime, she was a man, a successful composer who was murdered by another less successful musician because of jealousy. So, of course, it was unsafe for Debra to be a successful composer, as long as the trauma still affected her energetically.
With muscle testing, we found weak muscle with “The murderer deserves for me to release this trauma,” and “It is safe for me to release it.” We corrected both by using the Forgiveness Affirmations. Afterwards, we got a strong muscle both with, “I have 100% subconscious support to release the trauma,” and “Trauma in France in the 18th century.” This meant we were done, and the trauma successfully removed. After that, Debra was able to finally finish a few of the sonatas she was stuck with before.
Amanda had a great fear of chickens that did not make any sense to her. She never had any trauma with chickens during her childhood. Yet, the fear was so overwhelming, and she would freeze with terror and panic even when she was near a chicken in a cage or when seeing a poster of a chicken.
We then decided to do energy muscle testing with the affirmation: “There is a past life trauma connected with chickens.” Muscle strong, “yes.”
We then narrowed it down to Italy in the 16th century. She was a woman then. Amanda then said she was having some vague memories, seeing herself pregnant in a barn. We then checked muscle strength with the affirmation: “Trauma in Italy in the 16th century, and the muscle was weak, indicating that this trauma still affects Amanda and weakens her energetically.
We continued using EMT to narrow down the narrative of the trauma. It came out that Amanda was a servant girl, and the son of the master of the house had sex with her, and then when she became pregnant sent her away.
She was walking from village to village. It was winter and snowing when she gave birth in a barn. She was so exhausted that she slept, only to discover that chickens were pecking her baby to death. She ended up freezing to death and in emotional agony.
Amanda actually had vivid pictures of the barn and the chickens pecking her baby. Yet, there was no emotional load with those memories, only an understanding why she was so terrified of chickens.
“I want to release this trauma” – muscle weak, “no.”
“I want to keep this trauma” – muscle strong, “yes”.
This made no sense to Amanda, but I explained this was because there was subconscious sabotage to release the trauma, and we continued to narrow it down: “I deserve to release the trauma” – weak muscle, “no,” she did not deserve, showing she felt shame or guilt or feeling she was not good enough. “Others deserve for me to release the trauma,” weak muscle, showing “no,” they don’t deserve it, indicating subconscious feelings of anger, hatred, and vindictiveness.
We checked for “The father of the baby deserves for me to release the trauma” – weak muscle, meaning no he did not deserve. This was as expected, as he seduced her and then dumped her.
“My parents deserve for me to release the trauma” – weak muscle – “no,” they did not deserve, as they did not accept her back into their home and disowned her for being a “whore.”
There was also weak muscle when we checked: “God deserves for me to release the trauma.” What kind of God is allowing all these terrible things to happen?
When we checked, “It is safe for me to release this trauma,” the muscle also was weak, showing Amanda subconsciously felt holding on to the trauma was protecting her in some way.
We proceeded with the Forgiveness Affirmation to correct all types of sabotage, and we finally got a strong muscle with the affirmation, “There is a 100% subconscious support for me to release the trauma.” Yet, when we re-checked muscle strength with “Trauma in Italy in the 16th century,” the muscle was still weak, indicating that even though there was no longer sabotage to release the trauma, the energy of the trauma still affected Amanda.
Muscle testing showed that Visual Field/Kinesiology was the optimal way to correct that energetic effect. After we completed it, the muscle became strong when we re-checked for “The trauma in Italy in the 16th century.” This showed the trauma was completely removed, but I still wanted to see results in Amanda’s life. A few months later, Amanda went with a group of friends to the Hawaiian Island of Kauai, where hens and roosters roam free, and she was completely free of anxiety.
You can also see a demonstration of the Visual Field/Kinesiology here.
Robert came to see me because he was obsessed with a former girlfriend, Melissa, who ended their relationship after a few months of dating. He could not stop thinking about her, made efforts to meet with her, wrote her texts and emails, called her, and felt he could not live without her. The strange thing is, he said, he was not in love with her. She was not the first girlfriend who broke up with him, so it was not a result of a wounded ego.
While dating, the relationship was not good. They were impatient and irritated with each other. So, Robert could not possibly explain his obsession. It was totally out of proportion and had no logical explanation. He came to me, as he suspected it involved a past life trauma.
We used Energy Muscle Testing (EMT) with the affirmation “My obsession with Melissa is a result of a past life trauma” – strong muscle, meaning “yes.” We proceeded with EMT to narrow down the place and time and found out it happened in Spain in the 18th century. Robert was the husband, and Melissa was his wife then, and they had three children. The affirmation, “trauma in Spain, 18th century,” brought a weak muscle, confirming the trauma still weakens Robert energetically.
We started by trial and error, playfully checking muscle strength with different possible scenarios. We found out that Melissa then was a gypsy girl, and Robert was an affluent land owner. She put a spell on him to make him be attracted to her. He married her against advice of his family. Then she found a lover and ended up steadily poisoning Robert and the children.
Robert now understood that he was still attracted to her because of the spell that was never removed. They had “unfinished business,” and there was still “bad blood” between them.
We a found weak muscle with “I want to release this trauma.”
“I deserve to release this trauma” – strong muscle, “yes.”
“Melissa deserves for me to release this trauma” – weak muscle, “no.”
We combined the Forgiveness Affirmation for Melissa with affirmations to remove the spell: “Even though Melissa does not deserve to be forgiven, I choose to forgive her for my own sake. Carrying this anger in my subconscious for so many years never hurt Melissa; it hurts me, and I was and still am the victim of Melissa’s actions. So, I choose to stop victimizing myself, and the only way I have to do it is by forgiving her.
“I don’t have any excuse for Melissa’s actions. She was a gypsy girl, had nothing much as a girl, and was instructed in doing spells to achieve what she wanted; in this case she wanted to be comfortable financially. I choose to forgive her for that. What is more difficult to forgive is the fact she killed me and our three children so she could be free to live happily with her lover. This is, indeed, unforgivable. I choose to believe that she paid heavily for this terrible karma in subsequent lifetimes. I choose to believe that justice is always being done. It is also about time that I remove the spell she put on me; and for that, I need to sever all energetic connections I have with Melissa and therefore remove this trauma. For that, I have to forgive her. And even though I feel I could never possibly forgive her as Robert; there is a part of me – my spiritual self – who maybe can forgive.
“I choose to forgive Melissa for everything, she might have done that contributed to this trauma, either consciously or subconsciously, either deliberately or by negligence. I choose to release all negative emotions; negative thoughts; negative perceptions judgments; all negative attitudes and behaviors; all negative imprints, imaginations, and vows.
“I choose to release all energy traces of my curse, spells, and witchcraft from my entire body, every single cell, and from my personal space. I choose to believe that Melissa deserves for me to release this trauma, and this is my choice.
I choose to forgive myself for carrying this negativity in my subconscious for so many years and sabotaging any ability to release this trauma. I was not even aware I was doing it, so, I forgive myself. And even though I may not feel that I can ever be able even to start forgiving Melissa, I choose to connect with my higher self, whose essence is unconditional love, acceptance, forgiveness, compassion, and mercy”.
Now we re-checked: “Melissa deserves for me to release the trauma” – strong muscle, “yes.”
“God deserves for me to release the trauma” – strong muscle, “yes.”
“I can imagine myself releasing the trauma right away” – strong muscle, “yes.”
“There is 100% subconscious support for me to release the trauma” – strong muscle, “yes.”
Now we are back to checking: “Trauma in Spain in 18th century.” The muscle again was strong; indicating this trauma no longer weakens Robert energetically.
Finally, we checked, “The spell is removed” – strong muscle, “yes.”
Just to be on the safe side, we also checked “There is still energy of the spell Melissa put on me” – muscle weak, “no.” Now we know we were done.
And, indeed, Robert was happy to report the obsession with Melissa completely disappeared.
Jennifer came with her husband, who complained that his wife is being passive during their sex. She never initiates. She just “lies there” letting him do with her as he pleases. It is a complete turn-off for him.
After we took a complete history and found no problem and no trauma causing Jennifer’s attitude towards sex, we decided to use Energy Muscle Testing (EMT), The tested muscle was strong when we tested with the affirmation: “It is related to past life trauma.”
I gave a talk at the 2016 TEDxBGU at Ben Gurion University on Subconscious Sabotage. Enjoy!
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According to Karatzias T et al, (2011) EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) was somewhat superior to EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) in treatment of PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder).
Many types of eye movements have been used to treat trauma other than EMDR: Rapid Eye Technology (RET), Integral Eye Movement Therapy (IEMT), Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), Eye Movement Integration (EMI) and Eye Pattern Release.
Some researchers suggested that the eye movements in EMDR was unnecessary and using tones or bilateral stimulation such as the butterfly hug were as effective. Yet, this is not the case. Van Den Hout et al ( 2012) found tones inferior to eye movements in the EMDR treatment of PTSD.
The Trauma Therapist Podcast features many other of the world’s leading master therapists, thought leaders and game-changers who specialize in PTSD, post-traumatic stress disorder, trauma and complex trauma and related fields. Guy Macpherson, PhD hosts these inspiring interviews about the demanding field of trauma therapy, the crucial mistakes they’ve made and what they’ve learned, and advice they have for aspiring trauma therapists. (more…)
Here is my conversation with Constance Arnold on the Think, Believe and Manifest Show:
The 2nd part of the show features Dr. Daphna Slonim, MD – Author – How to Remove Subconscious Sabotage. You will discover the super simple and amazing techniques that will enable you to quickly eliminate blockages and go from frustration to liberating freedom.
There was more development regarding the client with a past life in Japan that I wrote about in my previous blog.
Just to remind you, Mary was cleared by my Visual Field/Kinesiology Field for trauma in Japan where she was a dancer and a concubine of the emperor. When the emperor discovered she was a Zen student, he exiled her teacher and executed his students.
After her sabotage to spiritual development was released, she had another block. This time she presented the complaint that her business is not advancing as expected, and she cannot break through a glass ceiling and become more famous and financially successful.
We found out she had weak muscle (sabotage) when we checked, “It is safe for me to be famous.” She was puzzled by it, and by using muscle testing we further narrowed it down to the fear that being successful and famous would jeopardize her marriage. Again, we found it was related to some past life in Japan. (more…)
Here is my conversation with Patrick Timpone on The Morning Show on One Radio Network:
How to Remove Past Life Trauma Without Traumatizing Yourself All Over Again By Re-experiencing It.
Past life regression became popular by Dr. Bryan Weiss, using hypnosis.
However, this method is excruciatingly painful, as you need, in the hypnotic trance, to experience the previous trauma and death.
Now there is a technique that allows you to find past life trauma that blocks you, and release is totally pain-free. (more…)
EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) became increasingly popular recently because it is, indeed, effective and at the same time very easy to use. However, there are also a lot of reports that it is not as effective as it was reported to be.
EFT founder, Gary Craig, blamed it on the fact that the technique is practiced by people who were not appropriately trained according to the “Gold Standard”, as dictated by him.
While I agree, I think there maybe another reason altogether. This is because I am very well trained in Gary’s (brilliant) methods, and still have only 40% success rate using purely E.F.T.
In my years of practice I became entirely convinced that people cannot completely heal, achieve any goal, or have the Law of Attraction work for them, if they have subconscious self sabotage. (more…)
My interview on Web Talk Radio’s Relationship Revelation with Larry Bilotta on Subconscious Sabotage to Relationship. (plus transcript below) (more…)
let’s look at some specific examples of salespersons sabotaging their sales:
Judy had a fear of making presentations. She was feeling extremely uncomfortable when she needed to present to even a small group of people. She was fidgeting, could not think clearly. Her mouth was cotton dry and she had heart palpitations. Using muscle testing we found out that when she was at age 5 she spoke with a lisp and the children laughed at her. She was humiliated when she was taken out of the class by a speech therapist.
After we pinpointed the cause we were able to remove this painful memory and its impact by using my Sabotage Correcting Technique (SCT). She now makes presentations to large groups of people and was able to secure a better paying job as a result. (more…)
My article “Applied Kinesiology as a Tool to Bring a Paradigm Shift in Psychology” was featured in the Association for Comprehensive Energy Psychology’s Energy Field online Publication and I wanted to share it here on my blog as well.
To read or download the article click here:
Applied Kinesiology as a Tool to Bring a Paradigm Shift in Psychology
For more from ACEP visit: http://www.energypsych.org/
My new article on Psychological Reversal has been featured in the latest issue of ACEP’s The Energy Field publication.
“In the Second issue of The Energy Field, here were two excellent articles address- ing Psychological Reversal. They were in response to Gary Craig’s recent posting on his ‘Basic Recipe.’ “The term Psychological Reversal (PR) has been eliminated because, after years of experience, I think it was mis- named.” (more…)
Trauma can be easily released using Visual Field/Kinesiology technique that is very simple to use, and does not require talking about the painful experience.
First I detect and remove subconscious sabotage to let go of the trauma, using my SCT (Sabotage Correction Technique). Then I ask the person to stand up with one arm to the side and resist me when I attempt to push the arm down (kinesiology). At the same time the person, with his head fixed at the center, is asked to follow my fingers, that I move systematically covering the entire visual field (Visual Field).
My article on Treating PTSD with EFT and The Sabotage Correction Technique has received a full 2 double page spread in the latest issue of AAMET LIFE Magazine.
You can download the pdf version here. (right click the link and select “save as” to download)
You can read the full article on their online digital magazine version here.
To learn more about this, see my video about how self sabotage prevents recovery from PTSD