Past Life Trauma Affecting Sexual Behavior
May15

Past Life Trauma Affecting Sexual Behavior

Jennifer came with her husband, who complained that his wife is being passive during their sex. She never initiates. She just “lies there” letting him do with her as he pleases. It is a complete turn-off for him. After we took a complete history and found no problem and no trauma causing Jennifer’s attitude towards sex, we decided to use Energy Muscle Testing (EMT), The tested muscle was strong when we tested with the affirmation: “It is related to past life trauma.” We again, using EMT, narrowed the trauma to the 12th century in Greece. Jennifer was then a widow with a baby. Jennifer had a vivid memory of this lifetime, and she described that she was Jewish, and her husband died from the flu. Both her husband and her baby were sick, and she attended to the baby and felt guilty she could not save her husband. She then felt she did not deserve to have the pleasure of being a spouse. Jennifer vividly saw in her mind’s eye a memory from this past life “a person of authority with a huge beard” who took care of her and her son. She said he loved her, but even though she cared about him, she did not love him. She agreed to have sex with him but was passive and just let him do with her body as he pleased. She felt dissociated from her body at the time they had intercourse. Jennifer felt she put herself in purgatory as penance for not giving her husband enough attention to save him, as she put her efforts towards saving the baby. By not enjoying sex, she was showing her dead husband she still loved him. When Jennifer had this detailed memory, she immediately saw the connection to how she behaves with her husband as a result of the trauma in Greece. She had a weak muscle with the affirmations: “I deserve to release this trauma;” “my husband then deserves for me to release the trauma;” “God deserves for me to release the trauma;” and “it is safe for me to release the trauma.” Once we performed Forgiveness Affirmations to clear all of these, we finally got a strong muscle with, “I have 100% subconscious support for me to release this trauma.” Now the muscle that was weak before with “trauma in Greece in the 12th century,” became strong, showing that the trauma was released. During their following visit Jennifer and her husband were happy to report during their following visit about a complete change in Jennifer’s sexual behavior. She initiated sex and was more active. She reported the experience to...

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How to have better orgasms?

Do you sabotage yourself out of having the best orgasms ever? This time I would like to address the subject of female orgasms and how to remove subconscious sabotage to reaching the best orgasms or multiple orgasms. At another time I’ll address the issue of male orgasm, as the sabotage is different to a great extent, when we are looking at subconscious issues. For example, whereas men would be inhibited, consciously or subconsciously with insecurity about penis size, potency, premature or delayed ejaculation, or fears about being emasculated or tricked, women are more concerned with fear of physical brutality, rape, pregnancy etc. Of course there are fears that are common to both genders: Fear of rejection, of STD’s, of not appearing normal, of losing control, of being abandoned, manipulated, shamed, ridiculed, exploited and many more. Remember sex is not in your body—sex is in your mind—and it is not what you consciously think about it, but what your subconscious has to say. So if there is something in your subconscious that says sex is bad for whatever reason, you are not going to get pleasure and satisfaction in your sex life. So, how to proceed with detecting sabotage? After we correct subconscious sabotage to happiness in general, we can move into checking EMT with the statement: “I deserve to have better orgasms.” Usually here there are issues related to guilt or shame, stemming from childhood. Take for example Becky. She tested weak to this statement and remembered that when her grandma found her masturbating she beat her up and told her what she did was a sin and she should be ashamed of herself. After clearing the sabotage, Becky’s sex life became much more enjoyable. We then have to check and correct for: “Others deserve for me to have better orgasms.” Julie for example, who tested weak with this statement, discovered through EMT that her first boyfriend did not deserve it, as he dumped her shortly after he took her virginity. Beth, tested weak and discovered she felt angry at the nuns, at her Catholic high-school, who called her a whore when she was found kissing. Lara discovered, to her own surprise, that subconsciously she felt her husband did not deserve for her to have better orgasms, as he would not agree to buy new furniture for the living room. She subconsciously punished him for being stingy and not fulfilling her desires. Then we have to check EMT with the statement “It is safe for me to have better orgasms.” Joan tested weak with this statement and discovered that she did not feel safe to tell her husband how...

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