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Example of An Actor Sabotaging His Acting Career Because of Past Life Trauma

Joe came to me after he could not secure work as an actor in spite of the fact that he was very talented, with a degree in theater and film from the very best universities. He had a good agent that sent him to quite a few auditions. He felt he somehow managed not to give his best in auditions. We checked if he had some kind of subconscious sabotage. Joe believed that this was a result of past life trauma. So, we checked muscle strength with the affirmation: “I have a past life trauma related to acting” – strong muscle, “yes.” We narrowed it down to Ireland in the beginning of the 20th century. “I was a woman then” – strong muscle, “yes.” “I was an actress” – strong muscle, “yes.” “Trauma in Ireland in the 20th century” – weak muscle. Indeed, this trauma still affected Joe energetically. After this session, Joe had a dream when he was a successful actress, who was very successful but then became an alcoholic and had a traumatic death. He decided to Google for famous Irish actresses in the beginning of the 20th century. He found out the story of Molly Allgood, who was a brilliant actress at Abbey Theater in Dublin. Two of her closest relations died, and she became an alcoholic and died from burns she received after falling into the fireplace of her home. Joe was, to some degree, shocked by it, but on the other hand, it explained to him his previous fascination with everything Irish, and his intolerance of people who drink alcohol. As a small child, he could not stand when his parents were drinking and gave them hell, screaming for them not to drink. He also was afraid to get close to the fireplace. So now that Joe knew the trauma and the early death of her fiancé and then her husband, we were able to proceed with testing and releasing the subconscious sabotage to release the trauma. When he stated, “I want to release the trauma” – muscle was weak, “no.” “I deserve to release the trauma” – weak muscle, “no.” We also found out with muscle testing that his father in that lifetime as Molly, did not deserve it, as he was a strict Protestant who condemned his girl’s love of song and dance. He died when she was 10, and she was put in an orphanage. John Synge, the playwright, was in love with her, and they were engaged against his family’s wishes. However, he died shortly thereafter, and she was heartbroken. So, when we checked “Synge deserves for me to get...

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Past Life Trauma Affecting Sexual Behavior
May15

Past Life Trauma Affecting Sexual Behavior

Jennifer came with her husband, who complained that his wife is being passive during their sex. She never initiates. She just “lies there” letting him do with her as he pleases. It is a complete turn-off for him. After we took a complete history and found no problem and no trauma causing Jennifer’s attitude towards sex, we decided to use Energy Muscle Testing (EMT), The tested muscle was strong when we tested with the affirmation: “It is related to past life trauma.” We again, using EMT, narrowed the trauma to the 12th century in Greece. Jennifer was then a widow with a baby. Jennifer had a vivid memory of this lifetime, and she described that she was Jewish, and her husband died from the flu. Both her husband and her baby were sick, and she attended to the baby and felt guilty she could not save her husband. She then felt she did not deserve to have the pleasure of being a spouse. Jennifer vividly saw in her mind’s eye a memory from this past life “a person of authority with a huge beard” who took care of her and her son. She said he loved her, but even though she cared about him, she did not love him. She agreed to have sex with him but was passive and just let him do with her body as he pleased. She felt dissociated from her body at the time they had intercourse. Jennifer felt she put herself in purgatory as penance for not giving her husband enough attention to save him, as she put her efforts towards saving the baby. By not enjoying sex, she was showing her dead husband she still loved him. When Jennifer had this detailed memory, she immediately saw the connection to how she behaves with her husband as a result of the trauma in Greece. She had a weak muscle with the affirmations: “I deserve to release this trauma;” “my husband then deserves for me to release the trauma;” “God deserves for me to release the trauma;” and “it is safe for me to release the trauma.” Once we performed Forgiveness Affirmations to clear all of these, we finally got a strong muscle with, “I have 100% subconscious support for me to release this trauma.” Now the muscle that was weak before with “trauma in Greece in the 12th century,” became strong, showing that the trauma was released. During their following visit Jennifer and her husband were happy to report during their following visit about a complete change in Jennifer’s sexual behavior. She initiated sex and was more active. She reported the experience to...

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My TED Talk on Subconscious Sabotage

I gave a talk at the 2016 TEDxBGU at Ben Gurion University on Subconscious Sabotage. Enjoy! If you want to learn more about Subconscious Sabotage, what it is, and how to clear it… Sign up below to get my introductory ebook: Get a free eBook!Sign up now and receive a FREE short introductory eBook about Clearing Subconscious Sabotage. Get my Free eBook! Thanks for signing up! Check your email for...

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Visual Field/Kinesiology for Treating Trauma
Sep04

Visual Field/Kinesiology for Treating Trauma

According to Karatzias T et al, (2011) EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) was somewhat superior to EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) in treatment of PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder). Many types of eye movements have been used to treat trauma other than EMDR: Rapid Eye Technology (RET), Integral Eye Movement Therapy (IEMT), Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), Eye Movement Integration (EMI) and Eye Pattern Release. Some researchers suggested that the eye movements in EMDR was unnecessary and using tones or bilateral stimulation such as the butterfly hug were as effective. Yet, this is not the case. Van Den Hout et al ( 2012) found tones inferior to eye movements in the EMDR treatment of PTSD. Benor (2005) uses a combination of EFT and bilateral stimulation in his technique WHEE (Wholistic Hybrid EMDR-EFT). He cited Asha Nahoma Clinton, of Seemorg Matrix Work who found that alternating tapping on the beginning of the eye brows, while reciting the affirmation, works just as well as the entire series of EFT points. However he has been using the “Butterfly Hug” instead. There is no research comparing the effectiveness of WHEE either with EFT or EMDR. My technique: Visual Field/Kinesiology (VF/K), is a modification of Eye Pattern Release, by Donna Eden. Except Eden only does it using a horizontal figure 8 in the visual field. I found in my practice that it is not enough and we need to cover the entire visual field. I also found that it is mandatory to first remove subconscious sabotage to let go of the trauma. EFT and EMDR have the same common denominator: They combine affirmations with some kind of sensory stimulation. They share that with Sensory-motor Psychotherapy, that uses the body, rather than cognitive or emotion as a primary entry point in processing trauma. According to Milton Erickson, severe stress or trauma produces an altered state, as a form of spontaneous hypnosis which encodes problems and symptoms in a manner which binds them to this altered state. Brent Baum uses the holographic model of Karl Pribram. He regards flashbacks and other dissociation symptoms of PTSD as emotions stuck in a holographic space. He regards dissociated emotions created at a moment of trauma as 3D geometrical metaphors that are frozen and stuck in a holographic space, that like hologram contains the entire trauma. The holographic model of the mind posits that holographic memory principle (when each memory fragment contains the whole) enable any one of sensory fragments to replicate or trigger the whole stored memory. So, any sensory response- touch smell or sight can trigger the entire trauma. Visual triggers may be the most common. Sometimes there may...

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More on Past Life Trauma Clearing

There was more development regarding the client with a past life in Japan that I wrote about in my previous blog. Just to remind you, Mary was cleared by my Visual Field/Kinesiology Field for trauma in Japan where she was a dancer and a concubine of the emperor.  When the emperor discovered she was a Zen student, he exiled her teacher and executed his students. After her sabotage to spiritual development was released, she had another block.  This time she presented the complaint that her business is not advancing as expected, and she cannot break through a glass ceiling and become more famous and financially successful. We found out she had weak muscle (sabotage) when we checked, “It is safe for me to be famous.”  She was puzzled by it, and by using muscle testing we further narrowed it down to the fear that being successful and famous would jeopardize her marriage.  Again, we found it was related to some past life in Japan. Mario, her current husband, was her father during the Japan incarnation.  He was very possessive of her. We found using muscle testing that he was jealous when she danced for the emperor and for the entire court.  He also became angry at her when she fell out of grace due to her spiritual practices. We cleared the fear from that trauma, but muscle testing still showed that her husband, Mario, was still jealous, and her becoming famous would endanger the marriage.  Therefore, I requested for Mario to come in for a session.  Reluctantly he came, very much in doubt about the entire process.  He was totally perplexed that his muscle testing totally verified the fact that he was, indeed, sabotaging his wife’s success out of jealousy and that it was related to the past life in Japan in the 13th century. Muscle testing with Mario verified that he was, indeed, Mary’s father then and that he was very traumatized by her being a famous dancer.  Not only was he jealous of her being in the public eye and having all men attracted to her, he was also very angry at her for being a student of the Zen Master.  He, as the father of the emperor’s favorite concubine, got a lot of status, riches, and benefits.  These were all taken away from him after she fell from grace.  He became very angry and unsupportive toward his daughter for causing all that trouble, rejected her, and there was a total disconnect between them. So, this trauma in his subconscious makes him feel that it was dangerous to their marriage, should she be successful on a grand...

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The Missing Link in EFT
Sep13

The Missing Link in EFT

EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) became increasingly popular recently because it is, indeed, effective and at the same time very easy to use. However, there are also a lot of reports that it is not as effective as it was reported to be. EFT founder, Gary Craig, blamed it on the fact that the technique is practiced by people who were not appropriately trained according to the “Gold Standard”, as dictated by him. While I agree, I think there maybe another reason altogether. This is because I am very well trained in Gary’s (brilliant) methods, and still have only 40% success rate using purely E.F.T. In my years of practice I became entirely convinced that people cannot completely heal, achieve any goal, or have the Law of Attraction work for them, if they have subconscious self sabotage. In order to remove the sabotage (called “Psychological Reversal” by E.F.T. and T.F.T. practitioners) it is not enough just to repeat the phrase: “Even though I have this problem, I completely accept myself,” while gently massaging two points on your upper chest. I was commissioned by NATO to teach Energy Psychology to European psychologists, dealing with trauma. When I worked with them on removing their traumas and when I checked their muscles with the statement, “I want to get over this trauma,” the muscles were weak. Then I asked them to say, “Even though I do not want to get over the trauma, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.” I re-checked the muscles again with the same statement. Most of the times the muscles stayed weak, indicating “no.” Something in them did not want to heal from the trauma. This was strange to them, as they consciously wanted very much to heal. I started to explore what exactly in their subconscious held on to the trauma. I found out there were mainly five different reasons: They felt they did not deserve to heal. (shame and guilt) They felt the perpetrator did not deserve for them to heal. (anger in a passive-aggressive vindictiveness) They felt God did not deserve for them to heal. (their world was shattered and they lost faith and trust in God) They felt it was not safe for them to get better. Or not safe to go back and revisit the trauma in fear they would fall apart. (fear) They felt that it is impossible to heal so easily and in such a short time from such a severe trauma. I use Energy Muscle Testing (EMT) to find out what kinds of sabotage exist and my Sabotage Correction Technique (SCT) to remove the sabotage. Then when EMT confirms...

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7 Reasons You’re Dating The Wrong Person
Aug04

7 Reasons You’re Dating The Wrong Person

My interview on Web Talk Radio’s Relationship Revelation with Larry Bilotta on Subconscious Sabotage to Relationship. (plus transcript below) Read the Transcript Larry Bolata: Imagine for the next sixty seconds that you can sort out and virtually eliminate every problem in your most important relationships. Happiness ultimately depends on the quality of our relationships, but it can fall apart when you don’t really understand people. Remember this, there are only three relationships on earth: intimate, social and work; yet we keep making the same relationship mistakes while we keep hoping for a different result. I am Larry Bolata and I am here to show you an easier way to understand people than what you have been led to believe. People are not as complicated as you thought, and there are easier ways to interact with them that would take the stress out of your most difficult relationships. That’s why every week my guest and I will give you the tools and understanding to improve your intimate, your social and your work relationships. I invite you to spend the next sixty minutes with me on Relationship Revelation Radio, since I’ve defined the word revelation as ‘a dramatic disclosure of something not previously known or realized. Since relationships literally make our life or break it, let’s explore what you haven’t known or realized about relationships on Relationship Revelation Radio. Larry Bolata: Her book is titled “The First Key” and she has taught people how to discover what she calls subconscious sabotage. This is…an excellent term, subconscious sabotage. You know, if you’re listening to any of my shows, if you’ve heard the interviews of authors…in the relationship world that I have done you’re going to hear them say over and over again some form of, you know, the behavior is subconscious. There talking about people not knowing what they’re doing, and on these shows you’ve heard me ask them the question, “Why are so many people unaware of why they do what they do?” And the answer from the authors are always comes back that it’s down to the subconscious. That means they are not clearly awake to what is happening to them and they’re not aware of their subconscious; and that’s why I’m interviewing Dr. Daphna Slonim today on the Relationship Revelation, here on webtalkradio.net and I am Larry Bolata, and I want you to learn what Dr. Slonim can…explain to you here. She has a way to uncover the sabotaging system that is in this place called the subconscious. And now…you know, why is it so valuable that you learn this this thing we’re going to talk about toady? It’s...

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Applied Kinesiology as a Tool to Bring a Paradigm Shift in Psychology
Nov08

Applied Kinesiology as a Tool to Bring a Paradigm Shift in Psychology

My article “Applied Kinesiology as a Tool to Bring a Paradigm Shift in Psychology” was featured in the Association for Comprehensive Energy Psychology’s Energy Field online Publication and I wanted to share it here on my blog as well. To read or download the article click here: Applied Kinesiology as a Tool to Bring a Paradigm Shift in Psychology For more from ACEP visit:...

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