Self Sabotage Prevents Recovery from Post Traumatic Syndrome (PTSD)
PTSD was diagnosed in at least 11-40% of Veterans of the Iraq and Afghanistan wars. 70% of adults in the U.S. have experienced some type of traumatic event at least once in their lives. That’s 223.4 million people. Up to 20% of these people go on to develop PTSD. As of today, that’s 31.3 million people who did or are struggling with PTSD. Throughout my 36 years of experience in psychiatric practice I became absolutely convinced that...
The Naked Truth About Dating – on WebTalk Radio
I was recently featured on WebTalk Radio where I discussed Self Sabotage in Dating Life. You can hear the show here. If you have any questions, feel free to leave a comment.
Do You Sabotage Finding True Love?
Relationship is a complex subject and can be sabotaged on all levels. Let’s start in the very beginning, meaning the choice of a life partner. It is not a surprise that our parents and their marriage have a huge influence upon our choices. You often can see that a person tends to choose a life partner that either has the same characteristics as their father, their mother, or both. Or s/he has the opposite characteristics....
How to Repair Karma
Before Mary married John, he was a complete gentleman. He was considerate and attentive. He appeared to be stable and mellow. After the marriage, there was a complete transformation. He was abusive and emotionally cold. He would drink with his friends, come home drunk, and beat her up. By that time, she had children and stayed in the marriage “for the children’s sake.” When the children grew up, and after she had some therapy,...
My Radio Interview on The Secrets to Success
I recently was a guest speaker on The Secrets to Success radio show on 90.3FM and gave an overview of subconscious sabotage and of the first key and thought this would be a great introduction to newcomers or reminders of the basics for those familiar with it. You can hear the interview below: [audio:http://www.thefirstkey.com/files/Secrets-of-Success.mp3]
The Law of Attraction and Karma
Rhonda Byrne’s book and movie, The Secret, sold 21 million copies. It served an important mission: It popularized the Law of Attraction and emphasized the importance of Positive Thinking. It also focused on feeling gratitude, as if you already received what you focused on. It introduced the power of visualization and “dream boards.” The bottom line is that you can have whatever you want if you can imagine it with feelings. All...
Abundance Does Not Attract Happiness
Abundance Does Not Attract Happiness. Happiness Attracts Abundance! Research showed that earning more than $60,000 a year does not add on to people’s happiness. And the Dali Lama just tweeted a week ago about just that. On the other hand, the Law of Attraction clearly points to the fact that the key to success is happiness. So, if you have ever wondered how to manifest success, if you’ve ever asked yourself: “How can I be rich?” you...
Money and Marriage
A lot of women have the expectation that their husbands should be like their fathers and be excellent providers and allow them to have the extravagant lifestyle that they are accustomed to. They spend as much money as their husband gives them, and it is never enough. This creates a lot of resentment from the husband, who may not be as rich as the father, and even if he is, he may have a different attitude towards money. He may be...
How to Make the Law of Attraction Work for You?
A lot of my patients ask me how to be a success. They do everything by the book, say the perfect affirmations, think positively, and do dream boards as suggested in the book “The Secret”. Yet they are not successful in making the Law of Attraction work for them. What is going on? We are indeed electromagnets and we attract to us people and experiences that vibrate at the same wave-length. Except at least 95% of what we radiate is what...
Let’s Talk About Relationship
Do You Sabotage Your Relationship? And how many times do we run into problems at home and divorce is imminent? Well you don’t have to get divorced. The problem may have nothing to do with your husband or your wife. The problem may very well be from what you are carrying with you from your past that you are acting out today. Let’s talk about Eli Eli, a 40-year-old man, came to me because his wife was about to divorce him. They had been...
