Let’s Talk About Relationship
Do You Sabotage Your Relationship?
And how many times do we run into problems at home and divorce is imminent? Well you don’t have to get divorced.
The problem may have nothing to do with your husband or your wife. The problem may very well be from what you are carrying with you from your past that you are acting out today.
Let’s talk about Eli
Eli, a 40-year-old man, came to me because his wife was about to divorce him. They had been married happily for three years and felt they had a strong relationship, yet, Eli would often have rage attacks against his wife when she did not respond to him right away.
When we checked: “My mother deserves for me to get better,” there was a weak muscle response.
Eli did not understand why. It did not make sense to him. He loved his mother. Eli did not remember any childhood trauma but muscle testing showed that he was abandoned by his mother between the age of 2 and 3.
Eli still did not remember anything traumatic from that age. But his mother told him that at age 2 ½ when she gave birth to his sister, she had complications, and she had to stay in the hospital for two weeks.
Eli realized that his marital problems had nothing to do with his wife. It all came from the past.
So, every time he called his wife, and she was delayed in answering, Eli, subconsciously felt abandoned by his mother, and it triggered a response temper tantrum of a 2 year old, totally out of proportion. He was not yelling at his wife. He was yelling at his mom.
The question is: are you raging at the people you are with, or are you raging at someone in the past. The way to find out- The First Key.
So, whether it is relationship, investments, weight, health, or sexual performance, the issues you are having are probably a result of subconscious sabotage, and the good news is YOU CAN FIX IT.